Sexual satisfaction is imperative and both men and women love it. Sex can be meaningless when the parties involved refuse to adhere to their body demands.
Sex can be more enjoyable and pleasurable when the right apparatus is put in place. The most important aspect of sex is the satisfaction that comes afterwards.
Many people don’t get to experience this satisfaction because most times they don’t set the right mood for sex as well as observe the body language of their partner during the action.
Before any strenuous physical activity, it’s important to be properly warmed up and try to extend the pre-intercourse fun for as long as you can.
Below are eight things women wish men knew during sex:
Mix it up: Research conducted by Indiana University found that mixing four or five different sex acts into one session dramatically increases her chance of reaching orgasm. Start with dirty talk, before stimulating her orally and manually. Use at least one position that involves full eye contact and one with clitoral stimulation. Make the missionary position more interesting by asking her to bring her legs together after you’ve entered to increase friction.
Rethink the g-‘spot’: A sex therapist Dr Ian Kerner and sex coach Uta Demontis said the g-spot is hardly a spot and advised that the whole area should be stimulated during the action. He said a man can curl his hand into a ‘C’ shape, with the thumb at the bottom, and use that to enter. He said once inside, apply pressure for 1-2 seconds, then release, and repeat in a rocking motion. Unlike the clitoris, which prefers rubbing, the G-spot likes direct pressure.
Cover all angles: Licking only up and down won’t cut it. Move over the clitoris from left to right and in circles. The nerve endings aren’t evenly distributed, so the more angles you cover, the better.
Leave her a reminder: If the sex has become predictable, spray your bedsheets with the aftershave you wore when you first started dating to subconsciously remind her of your early hedonism. Smells trigger more vivid and evocative memories which she will want to recreate.
Seduce her with music: Play tracks with explicit lyrics, such as S&M by Rihanna. Research published by the American Psychological Association found that such music makes her more attuned to your sex appeal. (Note: this technique may lack subtlety on a first date.)
Think beyond the thrust: On average, men thrust for about 3-7 minutes before it’s game over. However, research shows this isn’t enough time to arouse most women. Stretch out your performance with clever positioning. Thrust towards her G-spot, press your body down, not towards her. The motion squeezes your urethra, which helps to delay ejaculation.
Make her see herself differently: Kiss her neck while she’s standing in front of a mirror and undress her slowly. Research from McGill University found that women respond to sexual imagery in the exact way men do. Watching herself will turn her on even more – this is, naturally, better than anything on YouPorn.
Try some handy work: A sex coach Joanna Benfield says seventy-five percent of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. Though sex with her on top is good because it lets her control how she rubs against you, it’s actually more effective to use any position plus your hands. He further suggested that during the action, the lady should lie face-down, while the man enters her from behind and slip his hand underneath her for extra stimulation.