‘I found out that one of our children isn’t mine’ – Nigerian man tells court
The five-year-marriage between one Ayobami and Balikis Ismaheel, a mother of three children, was dissolved on Friday by the President of a Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan, Chief Ademola Odunade.
The marriage of the couple was dissolved over deception, adultery and gambling, as the court further granted custody of the three children produced by the union to Balikis and directed Ayobami to pay a monthly allowance of N8,000 for the children’s feeding. Ayobami who resides in Segelu area of Ibadan with his wife, was also ordered to be responsible for the education and other welfare needs of the children.
Defending herself in court, Balikis said her was deceptive, adulterous and a gambler who did not fend for her needs.
“By providence one day, I came across some of the children he had earlier gotten from some women.
“Ayobami, however, denied knowing the children.
“Neighbours told me that he was a crafty man who usually abandoned women after sleeping with them or they have had children for him.
“In fact, I was told that he pushed off his last wife from the staircase with the intention of killing her.
“His irresponsibility is based on the fact that he is a gambler and doesn’t return home until he spends all his money at gambling outlets.
“He is such a wicked man because there was a time when he was keeping my little contributions in his bank account and he refused to give me the money,” she said.
On his own part, NAN reported that Ayobami accused his wife of infidelity.
“My lord, when I was away at Ogbomoso sometimes ago, a certain man who drove a Jeep used to sleep with her in my house.
“Worst still, I stumbled across a text message sent by either that same man or another asking her to gear up for the sexual act they were to have next.
“In addition, my lord, one of the children Balikis had for me doesn’t belong to me because of her promiscuity,’’ he said.