Pastor divorces wife of 22 years after herbalist died on top of her during sex romp in Ekiti hotel
The marriage between Pastor Joshua Ajagunigbala and his wife, Rita Ajagunigbala has been dissolved.
The 22-year-old marriage collapsed in Ekiti State after an herbalist died on top of the pastor’s wife during a sex romp in a hotel.
According to reports, Pastor Ajagunigbala stated that his marriage was dissolved at the Ekiti State Customary Court after he filed a divorce suit seeking for the dissolution of the marriage with Rita on the grounds of adultery.
The petitioner, Pastor Ajagunigbala, during the hearing prayed the court to dissolve the union on the grounds of adultery and the custody of his children be given to him.
In evidence, he told the Court that he had not paid the dowry of the respondent and they had lived together for more than 22 years and had children.
He also informed the Court that it was the third time he had taken her to Court on the ground of adultery, stating that the respondent in 2017 started having an illicit affair with a herbalist called Ifidayomi (a.k.a Ejiogbe), who is now late.
He narrated that the herbalist died on top of the respondent while having sexual intercourse in a hotel at Ikere-Ekiti on January 2, 2023, which led to a commotion and made thugs destroy his house and his church at Ikere.
He lamented that her action led to his suspension by his Church authority and because of this, he is no longer interested in the union and pleaded with the Court to dissolve the union and give him custody of his children.
The wife, in response, admitted having sexual relationship with the late herbalist.
She stated that her relationship with the herbalist was because of lack of care from the petitioner. She said that she had been the one responsible for the feeding of the children and their school fees. She claimed that she had incurred so much debt, which the late Ejiogbe helped her to offset.
During the hearing, the Court noted that their marriage was illegal because payment of dowry was not involved in the union as such, there was no marriage to dissolve.
The President of the Court, Joseph Oyedele, while declaring judgment on the matter, held that there was no legal customary marriage between the two of them, adding that they are free to go their separate ways.
He said, “Having gone through all the oral evidence presented before this Court, it was discovered that there was no legal customary marriage between parties herein and there is no marriage available between parties to dissolve.
“The Court hereby orders that the parties are now free to go on their own without disturbing the peace of each other.”
The Court ordered the petitioner, Ajagunigbala, to take full responsibility of the welfare and education of the last two children the union produced because they are still minors.
“On the issue of the custody of the children, the Court can only order the last two children of the marriage because they are yet to reach the age of maturity. The first two children are free to decide under whose care they can live between the two parties because they are no longer minors.”
“However, the Court ordered that the last two children of the association (Olarewaju and Victoria Ajagunigbala) are to be with the petitioner and the petitioner is to be responsible for their welfare and education.”