BBNaija: “Accept you were wrong, apologize and then try to be better”‘ Tobi advice to Cee-C
Apparently, BBNaija: Double Wahala housemate, Tobi is still holding on to issues from the house.
In a recent interview by Red Media Room with Tobi and Cee-C, Tobi reveals he isn’t over Cee-C’s outburst at him in their final days in the house, saying she needs to “accept you were wrong, apologize and then try to be better”.
Here is what he says:
“You saying we just drop whatever happened in the is like asking us not to be human and that’s not fair, if you ask me. I mean, we are human beings, definitely lines were crossed, things were said, and things were done. And it’s different when you come out of the house and you apologize genuinely for the things you did, like oh!! whatever thing I did or said that was me playing a game, outside the house sorry that wasn’t me , it was a different ball game sorry, then we access the whole situation and be like , okay it’s was just a game. But when you come out and even almost after leaving , you getting the same vibe, same responses, the same verbal interaction, it’s no more a game. That is the real situation, the real you, so I’m not upset, I’m not angry. For me it was a ‘let it out’ you know when you are angry with someone and you have exhausted you energy, you will be like come and give me a hug and everything will end there. I was thinking we would get to that point but we didn’t.
“What will end all this is a genuine apology, BigBrother quoted one and she apologized for that, but that wasn’t the first time it was going to happen. It was more like the 3rd time, at a point I almost felt like, yo mehn… it’s like this thing is partial, BigBrother you are seeing this, this is not right. You don’t apologize for the one BigBrother saw, if you want to apologize, you do it genuinely, and you apologize in totality. If you want to change as a person, you acknowledge and accept your mistakes, apologize and then try to be better, that’s just it for me”.
Cee-C who has apologized to Tobi for her harsh words at him long before now, didn’t hesitate to let him know she is also angry at his actions in the house, as she calls him out for gossiping about her a lot in while the show was on.
Here is what she says:
“…Cee-c is this Cee-c is that, and I don’t want that for myself either… Whether he thinks, it was a game of whatever, that’s his cup of tea and he can drink it”.
Cee-C made it clear that she has moved on.
However, Tobi on the other hand said he is “very professional” and can be cordial around her even though he hasn’t forgiven her yet.
